Take a molecular cloud, collapse it to form a star and the leftover material will form planets. Sounds easy, right? But even our own solar system is riddled with clues that forming stars and planets is a bit. more. complicated. It turns out that accreting gas to form any small object is hard. Accreting gas at the rate needed to form the Sun in a few hundred thousand years is even harder. None of this is new. What is new is the observational revolution of the last 10 years, showing us the insides of protoplanetary discs, bringing fresh clues as to how both stars and exoplanets form [seemingly, together]. This has dramatic implications for our understanding of how accretion works. I will argue that the typical pathway to form stars and planets is a violent mess, imprinted in subtle and not-so-subtle ways on disc observations and also in the leftovers from our solar system’s formation. The story is misaligned flow, accretion streamers, infall, warps and variability. If you don’t care about stars or planets but the story sounds familiar, it’s because it’s not so different for making black holes or galaxies either... To arrange a visit with the speaker during the visit, please contact their host: Mike Lau